Life Lessons From The Dungeon - A collection of private and public blogs All My Heroes Were Ho s examines the experience of a lifestyle Domme and Leather titleholder with a dose of politics and a delectable dabble of Serene s favorite scenes. Her essays poke at her religious upbringing her discovery of kink at age five and the twelve years she spent as a celibate missionary. Two-time cancer survivor and political activist Serene mixes in stories from her time as a partner in a Domme/Dom marriage and entertains with stories of her life as a Cougar who revels in sensual domination.